On a Personal Note

A Letter from Jen's Heart to Yours

From my heart to yours...

Divorce and separation is every bit as much an emotional and spiritual journey as it is a legal journey.

Couples and families experiencing the heart-wrenching and emotional roller coaster that family law issues create need a lot of support, compassion, and love. It can be a very lonely and daunting journey, but with help, they move through and beyond their experience, feeling grateful about their choices and their life experience as a whole.

It’s my hope and heart-felt desire that you take steps to move beyond the emotional process of your divorce or separation, and live an extraordinary life. When children are involved, I want for you and your spouse or partner to create a nurturing co-parenting relationship and to facilitate a healing process for all affected by your family law conflict.

In all my years working with couples as a family law attorney, mediator, and life coach, I have found one consistent truth: Embracing self-love and self-care not only helps each of you individually, but it helps your children, and your family as a whole, to process the conflict and to move forward while living passionately.

In all my years working with couples as a family law attorney, mediator, and life coach, I have found one consistent truth: Embracing self-love and self-care not only helps each of you individually, but it helps your children, and your family as a whole, to process the conflict and to move forward while living passionately.

Divorce and separation consist of a series of choices from beginning to end, and I want you to fully embrace that you are in control of every single one of them. I understand that at times it doesn’t feel that way, but you most certainly are in control of your mindset. With practice, you can train yourself to make daily choices that are high energy, and consistently feel good!

By going through the Solace Divorce Mediation process, you will be embracing your decision to choose love... loving YOU, loving your family, and  loving your life. By doing so, you start the process of healing through this emotional and stressful time in your life. The questions you answer throughout our process offer you self-reflection and self empowerment. I promise you will develop new skills and tools to make high-energy choices that help you feel positive and supported moving forward.

Life is short, and is meant to be fearlessly lived! You are on a journey of your choosing, with a higher life purpose to share. You may not feel that now, but you will, just give it time. I know from witnessing the ‘life after divorce or separation’ of my past clients, that you will connect more strongly to your life purpose and will have a much higher level of energy, joy, amazement, and euphoria after setting your intention and putting in the work.

To this day, the resolution of family law conflict is practiced in a manner that destroys people, children, families, and the world; which is why there is such a negative energy attached to the word “divorce.” However, as with anything in life, you have a choice as to how YOU wish to define and experience your divorce process. After all, when you choose to use the Solace Divorce Mediation Process you are making the high-level energy choice to love yourself and fully embrace that you, and only you, have the power to make your choices and define your life experience. I believe in you.

Right now you can make the choice to look at your divorce or separation as a difficult and uncomfortable experience that is present in your life to teach you something, and by exploring that concept further, you will not only learn more about your relationship and yourself, but you will also intensely practice the art of self care to propel yourself forward in your life.

We are all meant to learn and grow from all of our life experiences, and people come in and out of our life throughout our journey to teach us valuable lessons that help us move forward and thrive. It is the most heart wrenching of experiences that are often the most powerful. You are meant to learn and grow from this experience, and become more aligned with your life purpose and more deeply connected to source energy. Choose to share your gift with the world and elevate the vibrational energy of humanity!

The Solace Divorce Mediation Process will provide you with the skills, tools and resources necessary to help you shift into high-level energy, and to help guide you to create the life you want to live after the divorce or separation.

Know that by choosing the Solace Divorce Mediation Process, you are setting an intention for yourself and for the universe to hear; the intention that you are consciously choosing to go through your divorce or separation process in an empowering way. You will be aligning with your life purpose and source energy. I know that you are ready and excited for the next chapter in your beautiful life, and I am so excited for you!

You are the creator of your life - live it passionately and freely!!!

From my heart to yours,

Jen Mitchell